Great blog post about the next generation coming up of young leaders in the church. I'm excited and can't wait to invest in their generation!

http://www.churchleaders.com/pastors/pastor-articles/150367-emerging-leadership-14-characteristics.html/

Dr. Chris Stephens is a friend of mine who has influenced me in many ways. One of the main arenas he has done so is in leadership. Through his leadership and at Faith Promise Church in the Knoxville, Tn area (God's Country), the ministry has grown exponentially and God is doing some huge and incredible things. I like to see churches growing and blowing! We all want to be in one. Our Pastor in Cypress, Dave Gibson, basically says that ministry is striving and depending-striving to work and do our best before God while utterly depending on Him to move and show up. I see that striving and depending in Chris and his leadership, and I love to hear and read his thoughts. Below is a Vlog post on church and leadership today gives us alot to think about. Enjoy.

The Gospel According to Glee

I'm not Gleek (a term to describe Glee fanatics of the show), but last night's episode was a telling snapshot of spirituality in this current generation. It all started when a character from the show, Finn, makes a grilled cheese in which suddenly he suddenly sees the face of Jesus in the bread. The "Grilled Cheesus". He begins to pray to the Grilled Cheesus, which is a whole misguided fiasco in and of itself. At the same time, Kurt, another student's father is lying comatose in a hospital bed. Kurt is gay and a self-proclaimed atheist. And while the other students share Finn's gravitational pull into spirituality through Kurt's crisis, Kurt doesn't share the same sentiment. Having sensed this, Sue Sylvester (the resident self-serving Cheerio coach) descends on Kurt in a vulnerable moment to get him to lodge a complaint againts the glee club for singing spiritual songs at school-their way of dealing with all thats going on with Finn, Kurt, and especially their way of trying to be there for Kurt. Another episode all over the place, but then all of them are.

Embedded in this episode are all kinds of indicators of the spiritual climate of our students today. Finn's prayers are all self-serving (from making quarterback on the football team again to making out with his girlfriend Rachel) and are steeped in the Moralistic Therapuetic Deism that is indicative of student cultute today. MTD's basic belief system is one we see creep even into the beliefs of our Christian students today - God created things and watches over us and the world; He wants people to be nice, fair, not fight and get along like the Bible and most of the world's religions would say (thus the Christianity confusion we see in alot of students today and the relative idea all religions lead to the same place); The basic goal in life is to be happy and feel good about one's self; God really doesn't get involved in things unless he needs to fix a problem or provide something for us we want (the brunt of Finn's interaction with Grilled Cheesus); and Good people go to heaven when they die.

On top of the examples of MTD, we also see in the episode the conflict with other faith systems (Judaism, Sikism, Islam), unbelief, and antagonism toward and disappointment with the God of the Christian faith. All Kurt's friends want to do is be there for him, and he eventually sees this and warms back up to their help and their prayers. He even agrees to go to church with Mercedes, a traditional black church in which she encourages members prayers that day to be interceding for Kurt's father. As the episode began to wind down, I noticed one thing. No matter where the different characters fell on the spiritual spectrum during the hour, in true Hollywood fashion toward the end of the show, they gravitated toward one thing everyone so desperately wants: Hope. Now understand me, the show was definitely not giving a nod toward Christianity. If anything, it applauded the religious pluralism and unity this generation is embracing. But, for us believers who work with students, we need to help them understand that Hope is the what the Christian faith is all about and what sets it apart from every other faith system and belief that is out there. A God who created us to be in relationship with him gives us hope. The cross and it's significance is all about hope. The resurrection more than anything bleeds hope.

I'm not saying Hollywood has turned a corner in their view or thoughts on God. They are still very propagandish (is that a word?). But shows like Glee, which students in your youth groups and mine are watching, are helping to educate our students, even Christian ones, in a false Gospel and a false hope. They are also great windows into the soul of our student's culture to help us stay on top of their pulse. Use them to start discussions with your students on the character, attributes, and mission of the one true God so they will be equipped to "always be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you to give a reason for the hope that you have" (1 Peter 3:15). It's good homework for you to.

First Day of the Month Awkwardness

I read this blog entry from Bryan Allain this morning about the awkwardness of what to say when people ask "Can you believe it's ________ (put any month here) already??!! We know we've all been there-on both sides. Bryan has some pretty hilarious comebacks that I want to use next time I'm challenged to a response. You can read them by clicking on here. Stinking funny! Try some of them next time and have fun with people just to see what they do . . . Just for fun, try pulling it off by adding your favorite obscure holiday, just for kicks. ("Can you believe it's Extraterrestrial Abductions Day already??!!) What weird day would you pull on people? Have some fun and write what you would do in the comments below . . .

Were You Blessed on Father's Day?

Yesterday was Father's day and my family blessed me hugely! I had a typical Sunday morning full of ministry, but later we just chilled. My kids and wife took me to a movie and then out to eat. Just hanging out and having a lot of fun as a family. No better gift!

Which brings me to the thought - why do we place so much more importance and emphasis on Mother's Day as a society (and even as churches) and not Father's Day? Most of us Dads feel like we get the shaft overall on our special day. Even in our churches we plan and execute activities that take away from enjoying and being with Dad (like meetings and setting up for VBS). We wouldn't even think about planning anything of the sorts on Mom's day. Mom's and Dad's both need to be honored and appreciated. My family honored me significantly yesterday. Mom is invaluable, but leadership and responsibility-physically, emotionally, and spiritually-are all placed on Dad.

My buddy, Chris Stevens wrote some good thoughts on Dad. Here is a short snippet from his blog: (Thanks for the thoughts, Chris)

I wonder why Mother’s Day is a huge deal and Dad’s Day comes and goes without much fanfare? Dads, do you ever feel slighted? Sometimes I think of us guys like Archie Bunker. That is not how God sees dads. I have never thought about it before, but He calls us the same title He gave Himself – FATHER!!! That is a big honking deal, don’t you think?

No matter what happens this Father’s Day we must never forget the power of the father! There is a reason that God placed the dad as the spiritual leader of the home. If a mother takes her kids to church, about 15% will continue to go to church after they are grown. If the dad takes the kids, about 75% of the kids will continue to go after they are grown.

Dads can affect their kids’ lives forever, for good or for bad! That is how God designed it. Here is another amazing fact I found today while preparing for the message this weekend. In Malachi 4:6 we see the mark of a major move of God. “The hearts of the children will be turned to the fathers and the fathers to the children.” I could think of a lot of marks of revival and never would I have come up with this. God did! Dads can change the world!

Beach Week Musings

Last week we had our annual Beach Week with our high school students in Panama City Beach, Florida. Amazing week! I love our students and love seeing and hearing what God is doing as a result of this trip. Instead of being redundant and posting a report, our Girl's Ministry Director, Lindsee Eddy (who rocked the Tuesday night message, by the way) has posted a great report of the week on her blogsite that I recommend you guys check out. Here's the link: http://www.lindseelou.blogspot.com.

Photos From India Trip

Here are some pics from our adventures on the India trip (in order):

Our digs at HBI in Chennai; my bag and it's condition when it finally arrived; the train we traveled to K. Kota on; the surrounding countryside in K. Kota; HBI's regional learning center in K. Kota; Some of the youth workers I trained (yes, they ARE youth workers); our room in K. Kota; the large group of pastors, wives, and youth workers that all attended the training sessions; my class of youth workers and my translator Isaac; eating traditional Indian celebration dinner with hands; HBI campus; fun day in Chennai; St. Thomas Mt.-traditional site where Thomas the disciple was martyred and is buried; Stanford Bridge-Chelsea football stadium; look kids-Big Ben, Parliment!; Tower Bridge in London.